So, relating back to this post, the latest and greatest distraction in my life is planning a big trip. And for some reason, I’ve chosen Paris. For the life of me, I cannot figure out why. In the past, I’ve only been interested in vacationing overseas to places that only speak English. London, Amsterdam, etc… That seemed like a good place to start. But now, I desperately want to go to Paris.

And in keeping with my behavior pattern, I’ve gone out and bought a book called French or Foe. Only one book so far. I am half-way though it. It has unlocked some “secrets” for how to win over even the most rude of all Parisians.

The author refers to one strategy as the “PPO”, or Persistent Personal Operating. If you find yourself in a jam or you are just unable to get the person you are interacting with to show any sign of compassion, use the PPO. Basically the PPO is “your cue to paint your anguish in the tiniest detail. Pour it all out. They want to be coaxed. And they want to be interested; if possible, amused.”

This of course, goes totally against my personality. I am not a drama queen, nor am I interested in hearing someone else’s BS. I am not sure if this strategy works for American vacationers but I suppose it can’t hurt to try.

I have a few more books on my wish list:
Fodor’s Paris 2008
City Walks: Paris: 50 Adventures on Foot
Knopf Mapguides Paris
Zagat Paris Restaurants

Because who knows when I will actually get to go. But I can daydream…